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		<title>A stay-cation</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 11:31:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Denise</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband had this weekend off. I think its the first weekend he&#8217;s had off in two or three months, and I am pretty sure its his last one off until sometime in November. So, of course, we looked at each other and went, &#8220;Well what do we with this time off?&#8221; We haven&#8217;t gone [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband had this weekend off. I think its the first weekend he&#8217;s had off in two or three months, and I am pretty sure its his last one off until sometime in November. So, of course, we looked at each other and went, &#8220;Well what do we with this time off?&#8221;</p>
<p>We haven&#8217;t gone on vacation in a long time, but we want to be able to go to Oregon to see my husband&#8217;s family for Christmas this year. So our logical brains prevailed and we decided to, basically, go on a stay-cation. Every day, we got out and did something different&#8230; and it was wonderful!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">One day we just took off for a drive and discovered a cool &#8220;Wall of Honor&#8221; literally in the middle of nowhere.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="302: Wall of Honor by niseag03, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/denisemattox/6126182643/"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 2px solid black; margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px;" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6204/6126182643_c8fe03ed4b.jpg" alt="302: Wall of Honor" width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
<p>The next day, we visited the Farmers Market, where pumpkins are already on sale&#8230;</p>
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<p>&#8230; then over to Yazoo Brewery&#8217;s Tap Room,where we finally got to have dinner from the Grilled Cheeserie, a popular food truck in Nashville&#8230;</p>
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<p>&#8230;then ended up having drinks on a patio in an area of town I&#8217;d only visited once before.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"> <a title="Lime garnish by niseag03, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/denisemattox/6129660754/"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 2px solid black; margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px;" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6085/6129660754_840fcfa9f8.jpg" alt="Lime garnish" width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
<p> The next night, we headed out to a small Cruise-In and had dinner at a Drive-In. Hamburgers, tater tots and a milk shake for dessert! Yum!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Cruise In by niseag03, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/denisemattox/6131847601/"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 2px solid black; margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px;" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6204/6131847601_37192dfcc7.jpg" alt="Cruise In" width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Finally, after finding we couldn&#8217;t watch the Oregon game after all, we headed out to Arrington Vineyards. We&#8217;d heard it was a fun outing, but we weren&#8217;t prepared for the beauty of the area, the delicious taste of the wine, nor the romantic mood the whole thing created. Heavenly! We will SO be back&#8230; often.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Arrington Vineyards by niseag03, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/denisemattox/6135150919/"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 2px solid black; margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px;" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6177/6135150919_ff29926fb1.jpg" alt="Arrington Vineyards" width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
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<p>I often remind myself and my husband that we live in a city that people come to on vacation&#8230; perhaps we should take the time more often to explore areas we never visit. I am SO glad we took the last several days/nights to get out and visit different areas of our city. Can&#8217;t wait for our chance to do it again!</p>
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		<title>A good book and a cup of coffee</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2011 02:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Denise</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I sat staring at my laptop screen. Visiting the usual haunts. Twitter. Facebook. Flickr. Wash. Rinse. Repeat. I felt lethargic. The previous day&#8217;s lawn work and heat left me aching all over. All I really wanted to do was lay on the couch with a cup of coffee. Beautiful sunshine, however, beckoned me outside. I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I sat staring at my laptop screen. Visiting the usual haunts. Twitter. Facebook. Flickr. Wash. Rinse. Repeat.</p>
<p>I felt lethargic. The previous day&#8217;s lawn work and heat left me aching all over. All I really wanted to do was lay on the couch with a cup of coffee. Beautiful sunshine, however, beckoned me outside. I finally consented, grabbing a book and my coffee. I stepped outside, braced for heat and humidity. Instead, a light breeze ruffled my hair. It was warm, but not too hot. I found myself wanting to do cartwheels in the yard or make chalk drawings on the driveway.</p>
<p><a title="227: A good book and a cup of coffee by niseag03, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/denisemattox/5867552143/"><img class="aligncenter" style="border: 2px solid black; margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px;" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5272/5867552143_0b56366b51.jpg" alt="227: A good book and a cup of coffee" width="500" height="335" /></a>Instead, I plopped myself down in my porch swing. I put my feet up, and I proceeded read four chapters of my book, breaking only to refill my coffee mug.</p>
<p>I found myself wondering why I don&#8217;t do it more often. I listened to a neighbor mow their lawn. I watched cars go up and down the street. My American flag fluttered in the breeze, making the pole creak gently against the house.</p>
<p>My life won&#8217;t always afford me the time and opportunity to take moments to slow down and enjoy the moment I am in&#8230; I need to take the opportunities I have now and embrace them. Memorize them. Save them in my soul for when times get crazy and stressful.</p>
<p>The next chance you have to enjoy your world. Take it. Put down the phone. Close the laptop. Just BE. It&#8217;s amazing.</p>
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		<title>Gazing into November</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 09:40:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Denise</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[November was once a month I would become downright GIDDY about arriving for the simple fact that it meant my birthday was near. Today? I look at my November calendar and all I see is&#8230; a lot going on! First and foremost is definitely BIRTHDAYS! My friend, Anne, has her birthday on the 5th. I&#8217;m [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>November was once a month I would become downright GIDDY about arriving for the simple fact that it meant my birthday was near. Today? I look at my November calendar and all I see is&#8230; a lot going on!</p>
<div id="attachment_337" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-full wp-image-337 " style="border: 2px solid black; margin: 3px;" title="112008" src="http://denise.mattox-live.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/112008.jpg" alt="November Birthdays" width="300" height="344" /><p class="wp-caption-text">November Birthdays</p></div>
<p>First and foremost is definitely BIRTHDAYS! My friend, Anne, has her birthday on the 5th. I&#8217;m right behind her on the 10th. My husband is the 19th, and my Mom&#8217;s is on the 22nd! Not to mention the countless other friends whose birthdays land this month&#8230; I think if we tried to have one big joint birthday party we&#8217;d have to have two full size sheet cakes to fit all the names!</p>
<p>Right there with birthdays, I can&#8217;t forget Anniversaries. My brother and sister-in-law got married on the 11th (14 years!) and our friend&#8217;s Brian and Kristen got married on the 19th (4 years!).</p>
<p>Important holidays: Veterans Day (11th) and Thanksgiving (26th). And of course we can&#8217;t forget National Deviled Egg Day (today!), Pack Your Mom Lunch Day (15th), and Stay At Home Because You&#8217;re Well Day (30th). (<a href="http://familycrafts.about.com/library/spdays/blnovdayslong.htm" target="_blank">For more of these days, visit this list on About.com.</a>)</p>
<p>Among these days, I am participating in NaNoWriMo. I&#8217;ve mentioned this before, but now its begun. I&#8217;m glad to say that as of right now, I am right on target to do this. Ask me again in a week how I&#8217;m doing. Then again, don&#8217;t ask. I&#8217;ll tell you on my own soon, I am sure.</p>
<p>On November 9th, I end my very first <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/denisemattox/sets/72157608848847472/" target="_blank">Project 365</a>. In one way, I will be really glad to see it come to an end. In another, I&#8217;m sad to see it end, and I am trying to come up with my own project to replace it. I might continue on with it, but give it some sort of twist. I don&#8217;t know for sure yet. I have 8 days to decide. I&#8217;ll let you know what I decide then.</p>
<div class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 250px"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/denisemattox/4021937806/"><img class=" " style="border: 2px solid black; margin: 3px;" title="Bonfire Anniversary" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2647/4021937806_b64521b182_m.jpg" alt="10 Years Later..." width="240" height="180" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">10 Years Later...</p></div>
<p>November 18th is the 10 year anniversary of the Aggie Bonfire collapse. You can rest assured I&#8217;ll have a full entry that day about it, but it is yet another anniversary that lands in this month.</p>
<p>In another sad memory, 10 years ago my brother was in an auto accident (on my birthday) that certainly changed my driving habits, what I drive, and without a doubt made me stop taking mine and my family and friend&#8217;s safety for granted.</p>
<p>Finally, big games to be played by Aggies this month. They will face Colorado, Oklahoma, Baylor and Texas this month. The Texas is back ON Thanksgiving, where it rightfully belongs. Again&#8230; that&#8217;s another entry for a later date.</p>
<p>Lots going on this month! I just hope I can keep up!</p>
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		<title>At the drive-in</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 09:02:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Denise</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know what came over me this afternoon. I&#8217;m sure my husband even wondered what came over me. See, out of the blue, as we sat on the couch thinking about the day &#8212; Memorial Day, a day to honor and remember all the men and women who serve our country so we can [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/denisemattox/3566321002/"><img title="Drive In Intermission" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3329/3566321002_b7da392aab.jpg" alt="Drive-In Intermission" width="500" height="375" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Drive-In Intermission</p></div>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what came over me this afternoon. I&#8217;m sure my husband even wondered what came over me.</p>
<p>See, out of the blue, as we sat on the couch thinking about the day &#8212; Memorial Day, a day to honor and remember all the men and women who serve our country so we can enjoy our many freedoms &#8212; I blurted out, &#8220;Do you want to go see a movie?&#8221;</p>
<p>Movies are just so darn expensive to go see these days! And we&#8217;ve had to tighten down to get through. So for me to suggest going to see a movie was about like my suggesting that the sky had turned green and the grass blue.</p>
<p>After some discussion on what we&#8217;d go see, my husband suggested going to a drive-in movie. I was skeptical, just thinking that with it being a Monday night there would be no way we would find one open. However, a quick Google search not only found a drive-in close by &#8212; about a 45 minute drive for us &#8212; but one that was showing a double feature of the two movies we couldn&#8217;t decide between in the beginning! Besides all of that, the ticket prices couldn&#8217;t be beat. It was a no brainer, and a date night created.</p>
<p>This was my first visit to a drive in. I still remember the drive-in that was such a prominent feature in my hometown. I also remember it being torn down in the late 1980s. Today, that lot holds a nursing home, as my hometown became one of the many towns and cities in which the drive-in has disappeared.</p>
<div id="attachment_70" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-70" title="Me and my seat at the drive-in" src="http://denise.mattox-live.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/101_0622-picnikd-300x225.jpg" alt="Me and my seat at the drive-in" width="300" height="225" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Me and my seat at the drive-in</p></div>
<p>With that disappearance, the experience of attending a drive-in theater has also disappeared. That&#8217;s a fact that has always made me sad, and after tonight it makes me all the more sad.</p>
<p>I absolutely loved watching movies sitting in chairs in the bed of my truck. Two great movies &#8212; both of which I definitely recommend, &#8220;Star Trek&#8221; and &#8220;Angels &amp; Demons&#8221; &#8212; and great food at the concession stand. My husband insisted I take a blanket with me, which I am so glad he did&#8230; it came in handy! We snuggled up under the stars, surrounded by lightening bugs. I have to admit&#8230; it was rather romantic.</p>
<p>This was one of the cheapest, yet most special, date nights we&#8217;ve ever had. I can&#8217;t wait to do it again!</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.stardustdrivein.com/" target="_blank">Stardust Drive-In</a> is located in Watertown, TN. A short trip into the country from Nashville, just south of Lebanon, TN.</p>
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