Sometimes, when I look at Facebook, I find myself remembering in-depth conversations with friends from way back when.
Take today. I was just perusing my “hometown-based” friends filter (seriously, if you’re a casual Facebooker and get frustrated keeping up with friends, try filters; they’re awesome) and with every face, so familiar yet aged 15 years+, I found myself remembering conversations. Some in the dark of a “yella-dog” (school bus) on the way home from a football game. Some in the school parking lot. Others through the tears of broken hearts.
We’ve all grown so much since then… since when we thought these dramas would end our worlds.
Some are married with kids. Others happily single. All with those conversations long-forgotten.
Sometimes, like today, I long to have another in-depth conversation with these old friends. How are they? Tell me about your life. Tell me all about what’s happened with you since those long-ago conversations.
Facebook only shows us what we all want others to see. It doesn’t share a person’s heart. It doesn’t share their thoughts and hopes. It doesn’t truly share the things only a long one-on-one conversation can share.
Just because these friends have long-ago left my life, they’ve never left my heart. Maybe they’ve changed a lot. Maybe today we WOULDN’T be friends. But I still remember them. I still remember who they were. And they all touched my life, and I still hope the best for them.
So here is to all the old friends… the ones you still love every day, even if you may never see them again in your life.
Such a thoughtful post, Denise. I’ve had similar reactions to reading posts from long ago friends on Facebook. Lately, I’ve found these posts making me homesick and wishing I was back in my home state of Virginia, even though many of my school friends are no longer there. But those memories remind me of home, and make me want to be back there.
Good post and I have to admit you hit a point that I hadn’t taken the time to realize. My friend from high school (maid of honor in our wedding) just posted on facebook this past week in response to sometime her sister posted and suddenly I also wanted to know more and have a visit. All I could do was let her sister know I thought her post was so amazing. These a super ladies and I also, like you wish them the best. But we are all blessed with our memories. Thanks for the post.