Last night, my husband and I went to see friends. I did a photoshoot for them, so I had my gear with me, which meant we took our truck instead of riding the motorcycle. My husband, however, wanted our friends to see the new bike so he put it on the trailer and we hauled it along with us.

On our way home, we stopped to grab something to drink. As my husband walked out, he got hit up by a man asking for money.

“You look like you’re doing pretty well off,” he said, gesturing to our truck and bike on the trailer behind it. Probably didn’t help that I was looking at Twitter on my smartphone at that moment as well. Heh.

My husband gave him a little money, and tried to walk away. The man kept asking for MORE money until someone else walked out of the store and he started to chase that made down.

We’ve worked hard to have what we have. We work hard to keep what we have. And it takes almost all of our income to do so. Assuming we have lots of liquid funds to just give someone just made me shake my head and sigh in frustration.

I told my husband that it reminded me of the time someone commented to me that they didn’t understand why a woman who was thin was going to run at the track.

“Look how tiny she is! She doesn’t need to go run!” they said.

All I could think was, “She’s thin BECAUSE she runs.” It absolutely baffled me that someone would assume because a person is thin, they didn’t need to work out. How do you think they got to be thin? How do you think they STAY thin? Its due to being diligent in their working out regularly.

Almost every day we all make assumptions. I know I do! I think its part of human nature. Sometimes, though, those assumptions should really be thought through a little better.

Perhaps we should ask ourselves if they are truly based in fact, or if they are based in jealousy or spite. Its something to think about, at least. It sure has gotten ME thinking…

2 thoughts on “Assumptions”

  1. I live off bell road and we have the homeless sell newspaper all the time and i always feel so guilty, but the truth is I budget our money and we just can’t afford to give outside of our budget. We already given to our church (cross point) and they do some amazing things for people but I always feel judged. blah

    I know I often find myself comparing myself to others and I have to remind myself that I am truly blessed by what I have and I should be thankful.
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    1. We see several between our house and downtown… half the time I feel really guilty, the rest of the time I feel frustrated when I watch one of the paper sellers talking on a smartphone. But who am I to judge what they use the money they make selling the papers on…

      I give when I can, what I can. But I also know that sometimes I just CAN’T… least I soon be the one people are helping raise money to help. heh =\

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