Archive for November, 2012

An avoidable crime

November 30th, 2012 1 comment

I write a lot about alcohol here. #DrinkUpLinkUp has become one of my favorite features in just a month. I bartend, and, as such, alcohol and its various flavors and mixes interests me a lot.

But there is one thing I have little patience for: drinking and driving.

I drive home from work in the early morning hours… I’ve witnessed my fair share of drivers that I am certain are drunk. Just a couple weeks ago, I watched a car sideswipe a guardrail — sparks flying — and just keep on driving. It sure scared me! But didn’t seem to really phase them. I’m just glad all they hit was a guardrail… and that it was there to keep them from driving into a line of trees!

It’s an avoidable crime. It’s caused the death of so many innocent victims, all because someone didn’t want to pay for a cab ride or just didn’t want to at least “sleep it off” in the backseat of their car before putting it in drive to go home. A cab ride and a parking ticket cost less than taking someone’s life!

Recently, there’s been a rash of DUI arrests in which its the persons 4th or 5th arrest. I’d be willing to guess that for every one of those arrests, they’ve driven a minimum of 5 times drunk without getting caught… without killing someone. And that… THAT… is what scares me. They’ll just keep on doing it until… when? Until they DO kill someone and end up behind bars? And what about when (if) they get back out of jail? Will they continue to do it?

I know plenty of people who have driven home having had too many. I have close friends who have done it. Drinking and driving does not define a person’s entire character, and I’m not sitting here saying I judge people based on if they do it. I’m just saying its an action I shake my head at and fail to understand.

It’s just not worth it.

I beg anyone reading this… think twice before getting behind the wheel with a buzz. As an initiative said once, even buzzed driving is drunk driving.

If you think about doing it — think also about the high, high costs of the fines, jail time, etc. How many Christmas presents would that buy? How many kids could you help by donating that money to something like St. Jude’s or MDA instead? If all that’s not enough, how much is your loved one’s life worth? Would it tear you up to have them killed senselessly? Do you want to kill someone else’s loved one? Do you want to face a mother knowing you took their son or daughter’s life? Or what about the little kid at Christmas who has to open their presents without Mom or Dad? IS IT REALLY WORTH IT???

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#DrinkUpLinkUp — Dock 57 Blackberry Whisky

November 29th, 2012 3 comments

Every year, the bar I work at holds a “Christmas Decorating Party” where we all bring in little bottles of liquor, the bar provides mixer, and we “drink your ornament.” (See my blog about it here.)

One of the little bottles I grabbed at the liquor store was Canadian Club Dock 57 Blackberry Whisky.

Hmmm… another flavored whisky. I like blackberries. I’ve no opinion about Canadian Club in general. So. Why not?

When I opened the little bottle, I poured some in a shot glass and passed it around to a few friends. All said it tasted good! You could taste the blackberry heavily, and I know you could smell it without even bringing the bottle to your nose.

I mixed the rest of the bottle with 7-Up, and it made just a nice fruity drink. If you’d given it to me without telling me it was Whisky, I’d have never known. That fact alone is a plus and a minus to this whisky.

I would call this a “women’s whisky.” Oh don’t get mad at me. I know PLENTY of women who can slam back shots of Jack, Jim and Crown without even blinking. I’m one of them. But on average, women tend to gravitate to fruitier, lighter liquors.  Think the many flavored vodkas that exist today. I would actually lump this whisky right in the middle of those.

It’s 40 Proof. It’s light. Its heavy on the blackberry. It would be good hanging out by the pool, not sitting around a fire.


Winning numbers

November 28th, 2012 No comments

We won the lottery! A whole $7! Three numbers, no Powerball. Oh well.  Made back a little bit of the  money spent… can’t complain about that.

Truth be told, I don’t care to win the whole big shebang. I would just like to win enough to put myself and my husband on the right track career-wise. I’d like to have enough to get all the camera gear I could possibly need, and I’d love to have enough for my husband to get all the gear he could want. Recording gear. New keyboard goodies. All of it.

And I wouldn’t mind enough left over to have a nice down payment on a new house. One with studio space for both of us. That would rock.

But… I find I am much more satisfied making my own money. Earning everything we have. I don’t want to have it all handed to me at all. I just wouldn’t be opposed to a little boost… a little kick in the right direction. $7 doesn’t exactly do it, but I’ll take it with a smile and be thankful. Seven IS a lucky number after all…

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November 27th, 2012 1 comment

Growing up in a small town, pizza delivery didn’t exist. I’d read in books about it. I’d see it on TV. But for us? NOPE! The local Pizza Hut did not offer delivery at all, though you could do carry-out.

When I “moved to the city,” I have to admit that delivery was something I was excited to have as an option. I could finally order a pizza and have it come to me… never having to even get out of my pajamas.

We did that this afternoon. Our cupboard and refrigerator are quite bare, and we just haven’t taken the time to replenish. So ordering a pizza today was just as much necessity as it was being lazy.

As I munched on my slice of pizza, I thought about how our supper was not an option to me as a kid. But it also hit me…

In the six years I’ve lived “in the city” I’ve probably ordered pizza delivery 5 times, with two of those being upon moving and just not having time to cook amid the boxes holding all of our stuff. So maybe… maybe not having delivery as a kid was that big of a deal. We probably wouldn’t have used it much anyway!

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A very *hiccup* Merry Christmas tradition

November 26th, 2012 No comments


I look forward to this night and every year. It’s the Fiddle & Steel tree decorating party soon.

It’s a little gathering all the Fiddle family. We all bring in little bottles of booze — the kind you get on an airplane — and we make our own decorations. Well, you drink your ornament. By the end of the night we’re all a bit decorated ourselves, and the bar looks beautiful.

It has very little to do with the drinking; it’s about the camaraderie. It’s the laughter and memories. Its watching badass guys pull out a glue gun to decorate a little bottle of Crown or Jack. It’s the ladies helping hang stockings on the edge of the stage. It’s knowing that for the rest of the year there will be a gentle pretty glow to come see every night together with our friends who are more like family.

I love this night! I better get back to decorating…

Weekly Winners (November 18 – 25)

November 25th, 2012 3 comments

Started by the lovely Lotus, Weekly Winners is a fun little thing bloggers do to showcase some of their favorite photos from the previous week.

Visit Lotus’ site and check out her various entries, and find other participants. See some amazing photos brought to you by bloggers around the world. Leave a little love when you do — its like food for the soul!


Photos taken using my Droid Razr, Nikon Coolpix L20 or Sony DSLR A230.
View all of my photos on my Flickr stream.


008: Quick selfie


010: Shelby Street Footbridge

Beautiful sunset from the bridge.

Nashville skyline

I shot in RAW for the first time on this day… LOVE how much better the colors pop!

012: Christmas decorations

No tree? No problem!

013: Thankgiving Day feast

Thankgiving Day feast

016: Put Beer Here

Put Beer Here